But she is still my sister. Now, my situation is completely different, but I did come from a family that kept the past secret. My sister was born in 1967. I wish you the best and will say a prayer for you and your family! 1. Explain exactly that to your mom. Iirc the stats are like 10% , but here's the part that they omit, OF PEOPLE WHO HAVE A SOLID SUSPICION OF PATERNITY FRAUD. I stopped talking to my sister and my other 2 sisters shortly after that. Best friend ghosted me around the time he started dating my ex-wife. I'm 42F, my husband is 44M and We have an adorable daughter 17F. When your sister leaves, Jill will ask for a divorce. I love her and would do anything for her in the blink of an eye. Either way, I played a prank on my sister who is a new mom. I am now being forced to move back to India and am getting married off to someone against my will. She's made bad choice one after the other and I guess they find it easy to give up on her. Award. This means I will not be attending. I texted my sister that I was willing to do a poly to proof that I was truthful. It’s a doozy. she also called me a junkie and she threatened to rat me out to my work place. And here your husband was literally fucking your sister. I probably won’t post much, but I really need to vent and I’m pretty sure my D (ear)H is sick of hearing about this. She took the bait, and I locked my legs tight forcing her to cum inside me, cementing my new life I am a 17 year old teenager, and my father ruined my life. throwaway. 7 years ago my sister was encouraged by my cousin (C for short) and my aunt to steal the wallet of a rich guy my aunt (A for short) was dating and take a photo of it and send it to them. Be extra kind and soft and empathetic. I most likely would’ve got into serious trouble if my husband/FIL ha Now she is not speaking to me because my husband tried to beat up her husband. i was a weirdo to a bunch of girls in year 8 through text and I apologised to all of them we are friends now in year 9 but my sister had been going through my social media without my knowledge for three years and is using that as blackmail against me, I'm an Indian so parents will flip out if they find out husband planned on making me homeless. He resented me and our kids and among many terrible things told me we "ruined his retirement," "you're not their real mom," (because we used donor eggs but I carried them, gave birth and of course love them beyond words), "I wish you were dead. I rarely (if ever) speak to him. My girlfriend and I are still young, not even 20 yet, and I can see this happening with her father who down right refuses to get a job. We had an arranged marriage but so far we have had a good marriage and a strong bond. Vent/Rant/FML. This is the ultimate betrayal. •. She didn't answer me. She moved to our country about a year ago, she met a boyfriend who she was living with, all is great. We are a tight knit community made up of formerly homeless and currently homeless as well as others. It's not your secret to tell but your father will be destroyed if he learn you knew all the time and never tell him. I live in the woods and have a makeshift shelter I've been living in throughout the winter, just doing my best to survive and not freeze to death. When I was sixteen, my parents asked my older sister to give me a ride home from school because they were too busy. I don't want to talk to them unless I am forced to. It sucks but you can still be besties. I talked to my sister the next day about it, and confessed that the whole situation kind of turned me on and now I have a sister taking jabs at my cock on a daily basis I’ve been married to my husband for 10 years and we have a 2-year-old son together. Sometimes, you don't know the value of something until you lose it. She told me to leave my sister alone or they would call the cops on me and get a restraining order. Stop being so nihilist and asking for more than surviving this marriage right now. Because of 1 Corinthians 7:4, a JW spouse could coerce the mate into sex. throwawaypoolproblem. She was my best friend and such an amazing person. Everybody has issues that they run into, and everyone needs advice every now and again. My sister is 4 years older then me. I didn’t know a lot and just figured it out on my own. I don't drink or do drugs, so I guess I have the advantage there. After she laughed at me about being homeless I got her fired, divorced, and months later put in jail where she’s facing 10 years minimum. I absolutely hated this (this started when I was 9 and lasted until I was 12)-- it made me hate being alone around her, because I knew she'd just start in on my dad again and make me listen to everything. She made me a better person. You are not responsible for him lying, screwing a woman he just met in your bed, being abusive, treating you like you don't matter, and possibly exposing you to STIs. I couldn't even get a new dress without selling it, and my sister offered to take it off my hands for 2/3 the original price, since it was so damaged. We got married two years ago and his family are nothing short of the best. When I was 12 or so, I was in bed when it just hit me. Knowing my original body, I spent the evening slowly seducing her until she couldn’t resist. I really don’t have much to add. He knows the whole building could hear. Any creative ideas will be taken, especially if you force me to with blackmail, and happy to prove it. He has degraded her family for being poorer than his family, He’s told my mom to fuck off to her country which she couldn’t because I was just a baby that time, he’s blackmailed her so she can cook dinner for him, he’s gotten physical at times, not to mention al the times he’s beaten me and my sister out of anger. He sent me conversations, endless conversations my brother in law had about me for years. Right now I am working from home but I am sure they will forcefully not let me go to the city where I got job. He apologized for what he did and told me that he is friends with my brother in law. Before the podcast started reading reddit stories, the hosts would choose a topic and research it using Wikipedia. I dealt with most of that alone. My parents were married in 1969. AITA for ruining my brother's marriage because his wife left me at the pool. Apologies for length. My niece is 2 months old and I came by to help out around the house some. My sister was spending the holiday with my parents. Nothing to be sorry. My 11 year old ESA dog died last year and I ended up having to re-bury his rotting corpse. S. It took me, don't judge, 5 years to really be all in with my husband. A year ago, my father unexpectedly up and left my family. One night He said we needed to talk. I heard louder commotion as I walked and my dad and cousin followed me outside trying to talk but I asked to be left alone. To my pick-me ass best friend who ruined my marriage. It was during a Christmas party at our mutual friend’s house. Without her here I’ve felt so depressed. They didn't know that she'd been drinking. 3. Nothing I said or did made my husband believe me. I learned they never really like me and talked about me constantly behind my back. I spent 6 years in a marriage. Then yesterday that guy contacted me. This group is for advice and to share experiences and stories of homelessness. My sister has been awful to me my whole life. I know people are going to dispute that but I know her well enough to know that she never would get close enough to another guy to be caught in this situation. You shouldn't as it's expensive and if. I slept with my wife’s younger sister. Not the A-hole. How my sister ruined my wedding. When she first saw me she started yelling at me, hurling insults and whatnot. So while I was bringing her over I saw she had a dog. I am appalled and I think you should be too. My other family members are horrified at her decision and are not attending either. I'm sure you're wondering why all of a sudden I exited every group chat you are a part of, why you can no longer find me on social media, why even with your birthday coming up, Christmas passed, new years passed, Valentine's day passed, you haven't heard a fucking My aunt remained seated and my cousin asked me to calm down and drink some water but I grabbed my stuff and as I was getting ready, I told my sister she was getting 0 dollars for her dream wedding dress then I walked out. MembersOnline. I'm sure you're wondering why all of a sudden I exited every group chat you are a part of, why you can no longer find me on social media, why even with your birthday coming up, Christmas passed, new years passed, Valentine's day passed, you haven't heard a fucking word from me My three younger sister's decided to go to their grandma's, it was just my sister but she had no one to go with. Make me do whatever depraved thing you want while I’m in my friends sisters room. I feel betrayed by both of them. Me and my wife, K, have been married for 4 years now. She doom scrolls instagram constantly and she sees all of the cute post where couples only post the 1% best parts of their relationship and she’s pissed off that our lives aren’t like that. He sounds like a neanderthal to be bluntly honest with you. He never told me anything about them but I knew of them through their old comments on his social media accounts. NTA- noise is noise, if your gunna complain, im gunna complain. TLDR - My mother physically and psychologically abused me for most of my life. As I (M,40) write this I’m actually still trembling with anger. It’s hard being a people pleaser surrounded by people who don’t have you’re best interests at heart. Seriously. On the first of this year, my mom came at me. My kids refuse to acknowledge me, my brother hates me, and I've been trying so hard to make amends, especially to my ex since he got out. ADMIN MOD. Dm me and I’m yours! Sc: J_fere2023 ADMIN MOD. I confronted him about it and he told me he She called me to tell me that she found S, but I assumed she was calling in order to tell me that she was going to sue for visitation rights to see WC. My mother did however. This is a place where you can ask for advice on many subjects. Ex-wife is still friendly with my family and mutual friends, but not me. I came back to make sure her last year at home before college has some sane person. this whole situation is so bizarre that I still can't really process it. JournalLover50. My wife knew about my best friend being in a relationship with my ex-wife and didn't tell me. My sister asked me she could come and live with me. It certainly ruins the marriage when one spouse is pressured into it by the other spouse. I can't afford LA, so I would never reside there. At the age of 28F, I met and fell in love with the man of my dreams, John, who was 30M. She found out that I am gay a few months ago after she bursted in my room when I almost ruined my marriage. We have a pretty normal relationship but our sex life leaves much to be desired. Yeah the stats they cite are biased. This will be really hard to summarise but basically my sister (F,54) broke up with her abusive controlling partner (M,56) of over twenty-five years only last year, leading to a messy custody case during which both made quite horrific accusations about the other, and a lot of Entitled person destroyed my shelter (I'm homeless) with me inside. As her oldest, she'd tell me all these things about how my dad cheated and then make me repeat them all to him. Never knew he would act so rash and make things worse 6th February 2024. My mom receives about 200 in food stamps, and my sister buys frugally. I'm sorry for making this long. I am naturally submissive and I’m sure you can convince me of anything. There must be evidence or at the very least a probable cause to ask for a DNA test. So before I gave my sister the USB, I plugged the USB into my own laptop and went into instagram to look for pictures of little girls in bikinis posted by their families and inserted these pictures About 2 years ago my husband told me he wanted to bring is sister (F30) for the US so she can start helping us financially with their family, which I thought was a great idea. move to a lower cost of living metropolitan area. Trigger warning: self harm. To make matters worse, she had bought me a very expensive watch and threw a surprise party for me. Also my life is trash but I’m trying my best. I'm just staying at my sister's place until I can get a job, save up and leave. No cash donations , No freemoney, No begging . This is Reddit's very own solution-hub. She is cleaning up your messes. hello everyone, im a student in year 9 and as the title suggests I'm being blackmailed. I am afraid I ruined something beautiful that he wanted to do to me . When we met I was 18 and he was 29, and we got married 6 months after we met (I was then 19 not that it makes a world of difference). We loved each other once at the beginning. I met my current husband when I had distanced myself from my whole family and he was amazing and his family were great. My selfishness ruined my family. You were in the most vulnerable state where both you and your baby's lives hinged. It was shitty behavior, but it doesn’t sound like it was unwarranted. My marriage destroyed my life. THIS SUBREDDIT IS FOR A PODCAST CALLED Reddit On Wiki, THAT READS REDDIT STORIES. I also managed to kick an opiate habit that developed after I broke my back, and have stayed sober. My parents have pretty much given up on her. He has always been calm and collected and good at deescalating bad situations. She gave you a heavy secret to hide and it's to much to expect you don't tell your Dad. My (f29) younger sister Jenny (27) was my best friend and I shared all my relationship details with her. TLDR: The three people I loved the most outside of my blood family ripped my heart out. I apologize in advance for the length. Due to our works, my brother-in-law and I would only join them on New Year’s Eve. I met her as a friend of a buddy's wife and within 6 months we were walking together on an isle. Mostly just This is my first post on reddit. People cross-post stories for a chance that our podcast hosts (Sean, John and Josh) will read the story on the show. Someone can normally answer your questions or concerns quickly and with experience. Im not the best writer so bear with me. I confessed to my wife a couple weeks back when confronted and a day before it was confirmed she contracted herpes. After having twins at 43. TIFU and ruined my sister’s marriage over a prank. : r/weddingplanning. Stop talking to your parents and your sister as well. Work to rebuild after this chaos is over and the debt is resolved. My sister is trying to ruin my wedding. I love my brother and I know he loves my sil very much and I know that what happened is 99% my fault and she has never strayed from my brother (in fact they are high school sweethearts). Theres no shame in not being able to afford something, but to the point you'd remain there to be homeless - thats crazy. The absolute best. My best friend since I was 20 years old married my ex-wife behind my fucking back. Early on in our marriage, I did something I shouldn’t have done to help my sister get away from her abusive ex-husband. I chewed her out over the phone. It starts with you being nice, acting friendly, asking about my interests, but really your just manipulating me into giving you all the information you need to: blackmail me into your total bitch Completely feminise me at all times -Make me worship cock Force me to take pills to grow my tits and ass Ruin my 13 year marriage to my HS sweetheart Just what the title says. " Anyway, if they havent been intimate in years, their marriage was already ruined. 5 years , who I met via my parents as her family and family came from the same social circle My gf and I moved to Texas as she found a great job opportunity and we didn’t wanted to do a long distance relationship. Stop talking. One night showed your behavior to an extent that was too much to ignore or rug sweep. Adito_Max. So, I'm homeless, doing my best to get out of this situation. TL:DR My (F33) little sister (F28) is inviting my ex fiancé (M32) and the women (F22) he cheated on me with to her wedding. I was finally free and I have never been happier in my life. When I first met my husband (m27) he had been trying to distance himself from his old group of friends from high school. I don't really like my sister and it's mainly because of her choices in life. She felt really bad and asked Other Cousin what to do and he told her not to do it again, C and A were furious and have been blackmailing her to this day. It took me 3 years and loads of therapy sessions before I moved on and now married my now current gf of 1. They had been reluctant ever since I got that job. So my wife got into tiktok a while ago, and I never thought anything of it. I'm the youngest of my family. But, the thing that makes it so hard is that my sister doesn’t know I know. I have just received news about what my older sister wants to do on my wedding day. It can even come back if you both really committed to making your marriage and family work. He left me homeless, sexually assaulted me and was abusive during the 12 year relationship. . He abandoned myself, my mother, and my preteen sister. Your husband likely irrevocably broke your bond, and sometimes there's no fixing that. I can only imagine he wanted to end his marriage and wasn't brave enough to take the step. Relationship Reddit Stories, OP and his sister had traumatic childhoods and OP tried to protect his sister from most of it. I was the one to have an affair. A few years ago I even had a total loss house fire and have been trying to recover my adult-made stability ever since. You were pregnant and giving birth. I did the worst thing imaginable. My in-laws ruined my marriage. He asked my sister for help because he wanted everything to be perfect. Married for almost 15 yrs, Me 38, wife 37, I had a one time affair 6 yrs ago and nearly 2 yrs ago (different women). I have been married for 13 years to my HS sweetheart. it still doesn’t feel real but I feel scared and For the record, I have not married a JW; but I have heard from some of my former friends (PIMIs) marital affairs. My sister is very angry. This will be really hard to summarise but basically my sister (F,54) broke up with her abusive controlling partner (M,56) of over twenty-five years only last year, leading to a messy custody case during which both made quite horrific accusations about the other, and a lot of I don't know if this will make you feel better or worse, but swinging pretty much ruins almost everyone's marriage who tries it. I (20m)was blackmailed and did the stupidest thing possible : r/Advice. She is a narcissistic manipulator obsessed with your sister, it was never about you. This was written on my phone. Our love story was like something out of a fairy tale I tell my mom that I can open it on my own but my mom then slapped me and screamed at me calling me dumb. He initially left and went back to his home-country, but has since settled back in our country but on the complete opposite side of it. (Rant!) My sister is trying to ruin my wedding. r/Advice. I was married to her for 6 years and they were never even friends and now they are in love with each other. My wife found out on my birthday. I forced my wife to go to a party and now my marriage is ruined. I guess she thinks my mom didn’t tell me how she found out. She must to come clean with him before you tell the truth. I know I can always take a stand for myself but my parents are very old and survived by me. Now after years married and one child, our sex life has dissipated. Your marriage had numerous issues prior to this but YOU chose to go down this path and abuse your husband. My individual councilor has asked me to make a post to get it off my chest. I don't know where to actually post this but I need to get it off my chest. She hung up, and began a relationship with S out of spite, not telling him that she knew who he was and that he had a family who was looking for him. My father even threatened me that he will fix my marriage against my Oh my god, that is so sad, I'm so sorry. I'm getting married in 2024. I never imagined that my life would turn into a never-ending tragedy, but that's precisely what happened when I became the person at the brunt of family and in-law problems. She expects these grand acts of romance all the time and Poly just shined the light on his true self. A few months ago, I caught my sister’s husband in bed with another girl, both naked. Edit: For everyone roasting my aunt. My grandma told me she wasn't able to fix it, and an estimate for repair was so out of our budget that if we went through with it, we'd either need to postpone 6 months, or ditch the photographer. P. I know I'm in no position to negotiate. Hi Im 28 (M) my wife who I’ve been with since I was 15 passed away from cancer 2 year ago. Jul 21, 2020 ยท Aggressive manipulation tends to involve more obvious attempts to control your behavior, including: shaming or mocking you. He knew I was his one and only from the moment we met. I felt like an idiot and left and now I am staying with my parents . I have never met this guy in my life. 5 my husband turned up the abuse and gaslighting. 2. My gf wants to help him look for a house already, and refuses to move in with me until that is taken care of. Ive ruined my life. I destroyed my marriage and my life. After my husband had an affair our marriage became very distraught as my emotional moods were a roller coaster. You have no idea of the stuff my dad has done during his marriage. you stay there you'll be homeless. You say you don't want to live in Denver. . So, my sister just keeps acting like we’re great and keeps trying to talk to me, hug me, text me and call me For some reason, being married meant for me that I at least had to abstain from physical activity, but for a long time I didn't consider what I was doing as damaging or cheating to my marriage. scapegoating, or blaming you when things go wrong. Please stop roasting my aunt. I was sick of my nerdy life, so I slipped a swap pill in my step sister’s drink and pretended to be shocked. kind of So my boyfriend (M 29) and I (F 21) have barely been together for 6 months, from the very start our relationship has been intense, he has no family in this city and I don't get along with the very few family members I have in this city so when we met we were together 24/7, I completely broke away from my friends and he did too. S. Not for opinions, not for relationship advice, and not for preaching. They married and had two more children after the one she concieved during my marriage to him. Went on roadtrips and tried new things, made many My mom did this. I was crying through the entire ordeal. I'm sorry. M. Miraculously, she managed to make it to the school and pick me up, only to get into an accident at a For some context like 3 days ago I told my sister she should stop dating her boyfriend because he is to old for her . I don't know if the guilt will ever leave me. She did not take my lecture kindly and she did the only thing her immature ass could think of, she decided to tell mom and my stepdad that I am gay . And when Anne leaves, you will become obsolete and disposable, and Jill will probably try to follow her to keep tormenting Anne. I ended up hanging out all day and long after They started blackmailing me emotionally in worst way. The idea of blackmail intrigues me. They emotionally blackmailed me and made me call my boyfriend last night as well and tell him that I cannot marry him. I was shocked! we got into a huge argument where he said he could do better than me (which till Naturally my sisters friend starts laughing while I froze up due to embarrassment and my sister giggles and says to her friend they should leave. I also found out that he talked shit about my current wife and me behind my back and never liked her. He made it worse yes. Push my limits. I want a low contact relationship with my sister in the future. He was also planning a vacation for me and him where he wanted to propose me . I pushed her off of me, too hard on accident, and got arrested and charged for DV. I’m on a no contact order with my mom, which made me homeless. Love can leave a marriage. Social media ruined my marriage. I've been with my wife M for 12 years. Honestly, your husband might feel guilty and shame, but the regret was because the sex wasn't worth the affair. whiskeyvanilla. This upset me a lot and made me emotional. Go to Advice. You didn't ruin your marriage in one night. It pains me that such trash exists in the world as people. Reply reply. He and my sister have been calling and messaging me . After a while of it she started grabbing at me and I got scared. UPDATE IS HERE, the mods wouldn't let me post because this post isn't old enough. Here's a TLDR: I had an affair, my ex walked in on us, Acted out, went to jail for five years, and spent four of them in protective custody after an attempt. She’s about 3 years older than me. So they go and that was that. Ok, so this actually happened last night but it’s been less then 24 hours so I think it counts. Communication is a strong virtue of mine but it's not so much for her. Your sister is absolutely ADMIN MOD. The way I was raised, I never thought anyone stuck around. put-downs, insults I'd rather not go back to living on the streets, but I feel like my parents will put me in grave danger if they know where I am. When you can, move out as fast you can. Later in life OP finds himself in Not the A-hole. Here for another day or so, happy to take tasks for a while. Just don't bother with them anymore, be cold/neutral until they realize their mistake. He blind sighted me saying he wanted a divorce. My sister permanently crippled me and everybody wants me to forgive her. My wife and I have known each other for 13 years. I refused any and all contact with my sister and ex. They have said very hurtful things that I can never forget. We were inseparable, had some of the highest highs in my life. This is an introduction to my sister. Just Randomly asking for a DNA test will make one an EX. She is working her ass off and has nothing to show for it because of you. It just popped into my head and had never occurred to me before. He left me and our divorce is pending. So, I just took my moms essentially blackmail and am trying hard not to mess up in her eyes. NO soft begging will be tolerated here. cn zz pf cu qe mk vr ni eg oe